Your Questions About Spirituality And Practice

Mark asks…

For Those Who Practice New Age Spirituality: Cultural Theft in New Age Religion?

I have a question for those involved in New Age religion/spirituality:

Do you ever feel bad about the cultural theft that happens? For example, the New Age is a syncretism, or bricolage, meaning that it takes from many different spiritual and cultural traditions. Many times, this is fine. But other times, a cultural group doesn’t like that their culture is taken and used (or mis-used). For example, vision quests, sweat lodges and smudging are all present in the New Age and are taken primarily from Native American traditions. Many Native Americans do not like this. Another example is Shamanism (aspects of shamanism are used in the new age and taken from various shamanistic cultures).

The question is, have you ever thought you were doing something wrong in using these traditions that weren’t yours (assuming you are not of a Native or Shamanistic tradition)? If you haven’t thought it is wrong, why? I suspect that it is because you’ve never thought about it (correct me if I’m wrong, please). It just isn’t something that’s talked about in the New Age, so I think many people who practice New Age just don’t think about it. I certainly don’t think there is anything malicious going on.

Please understand that I’m not being accusatory, I just am curious whether any of you have thought about the topic of cultural theft, and how it affects your spiritual practices.

For more on cultural appropriation (theft) look here:

http://www.hanksville.org/sand/intellect/NAbibBell.html

http://www.geocities.com/d0n0harm/

http://www.geocities.com/d0n0harm/links

“There is no harm in White people’s retreating into solitary places for spiritual insight and growth. This has been part of most religious traditions. So the popularity of calling such a retreat a ‘vision quest’ comes from the commodification [sic] of Native Americans as the latest consumer fad. By turning Indians into commodities, they are incorporated into capitalism’s way or perceiving and valuing reality. Their own perceptions and values are thus undermined. What is called “Indian spirituality” has actually become a distortion. Those words then cannot be relied on, they have been warped to fit another agenda. By this, the attempt to hold onto authentic Indian spiritualities has been rendered more difficult.”

http://www.geocities.com/d0n0harm/Wanting2BNDN8

Apeman: appropriation is not flattery. This cultural theft of Native American religions and Shamanist cultures lends to the further obliteration of Native communities. The Chinese government did (is doing) this consciously to Tibet: it is appropriating Tibetan culture and twisting it so that the original Tibetan culture itself is lost. Non-Natives are doing the same thing to Natives, but they are not aware of what they are doing.
[note: this part of the quote comes after the below quote]

“What are some of the effects of this warped agenda on Native people? The actual realities of Native communities are erased. Native communities have been under assault for 500 years, and are facing issues of dislocation, continued theft of land, poverty, unemployment, addiction, suicide, and despair. In Native communities, the recovery of traditional practices such as the vision quest helps build identity and community pride, helps empower Native communities for life struggles against a racist mainstream. If these ceremonies are diluted by misuse in White America, the communities are weakened in their struggles for survival.”
- From “Wanting to be Indian” http://www.geocities.com/d0n0harm/Wanting2BNDN8
grr sorry – these edits are screwing up the quote order. I put a quote from “Wanting to Be Indian”: The one that starts “There is no harm..” is first. The one that starts “What are some of the effects” continues the first quote.

admin answers:

We who are native have asked repeatedly for the appropriation of our ceremonies to be stopped. Some have gone so far as banning all non natives from our ceremonies because of the abuses. Yet still there are those who for a fee will give you an authentic spirt’ul experience. Some do it for money, some for their own ego. But all because they feel entitled to take whatever they want any time they want. You see the justification attempts all time.

Your self entitlement is destroying our ways because of your sheer numbers. We are few, less than 1% of the population and you have taken just about everything from us. Why can’t you leave us what makes us who we are and stop corrupting one of the last things we hold close as indigenous peoples?

@fire falcon. We do not need non natives to preserve our culture. We are not dying out. In fact we are the fastest growing group in the population. Your governments of usa and canada are no longer forcefully sterilizing us.
Our culture survives by passing it on to our children. It is not something we do…it is who we are. Our ceremonies are always done in our languages. Our beliefs and practices are not something one can do outside the community as everything is focused on the community. To try is to bastardize it. That is why we keep things to ourselves. We remember how we shared things and what happened to those things. We have learned the hard way.
It is pretty arrogant to think that without the non native’s help, we are destined to disappear, when it was your “help” that almost made it a reality. We have survived for thousands of years plus 500 yrs of genocide. We will continue to survive and that is why when it comes to our spirituality we say..hands off. It is not yours, it never was yours, it will never be yours. If people cared they would listen to us for once and respect our wishes. But of course respect is not a strong point with the dominent culture.

@fire falcon. If i ask to use your car and you say no and then i take it anyway, even if i am very careful with it, is it still stealing? I mean..i know EXACTLY where it came from so i couldn’t have stolen it! Of course it is stealing. When native people have asked for outsiders, meaning people not within our communities, to leave our ceremonies alone and yet they continue to mock them and us by attempting to use them, it is theft. Cultural theft. We are telling you.. It DOES harm us, but you dismiss what we say just like many others. You do not want to be lumped in with other people but you are justifying what so many of those others do. Its always the same story..”we respect native people..we just won’t listen to what you are saying or respect your wishes because obviously we as the dominant culture know better than you do what you need and don’t need.”
why is it so hard to understand? This is exactly the entitlement we speak about. You don’t like being told “no” especially by natives! All of us know the attitude even if it is unspoken…”we won, you lost, you don’t get to tell us what to do”. It is the same attitude that pervades the mascot issue. You want something and nothing will stop you from taking it. It is what your culture does all the time and all over the world. You make up excuses for why you should have it, and justify the usually forceful and deceitful means you use to take it, too. Like talking about the war you won to take this country as your own. There was no war! There were lies and legislation and massacres! But you get to write the history your way. We get it.

Perhaps you should read your own history to see what happens to native people when we share with your people. We’ve been there already and have no intention of going back.

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Your Questions About Spirituality In Nursing

Laura asks…

My life and aspergers. Wanting to make a change with God?

Hi I’m 27 and have aspergers syndrome. It has effected my life heavily, jobs etc; especially with woman. I’ve failed so many times and I want to make a change. I want God to change me. Before I dated woman and was engaged twice just to say I have someone. All my friends are now off and married and I’m basically by myself with my parents. I hold some resentment towards them for over coddling me because of my ‘syndrome’ and ever since my brothers death at 22 in 2007 (maybe god gave him a break, the easy way out) their coddling has gotten worse. I want Gods best for my life. I have so much in me thats trapped inside. Its basically a social problem, not knowing social cues and how to make friends etc. I don’t know how to start or even what God wants. I know I want a family one day, I know I want a good job, be a normal person. I’m willing to meet God at step 1. But I know I must see doctors specializing in this asperger syndrome as well. I’m just terrified is all. and my disease makes me scared of God too, like he’s another obstacle. I don’t like that. I love him with all my heart and want him to bring me my life in his timing. I turn 28 January 30th. Somehow I feel i’m too old to start anew, to find that job, marry, have kids, go back to school etc.
I know I need to pray more. I can’t meet woman at my church because I’ve known them my whole life and its like a friend thing ya know. There good friends but most of them are married and know me to well. I want to grow in spirituality and have god lead me but for those of you without asperger you don’t know how STRONG of a syndrome it actually is. I’ve even contemplated suicide.

1. All I know now is I need to seek God and have him transform me. For that all I know how to do is pray and ask for gods help. Nothing theatrical.
2. Go and finish school and seek help in finding that job. Gods given me an interest and talent with writing.
3. Seek a doctors help
4. I don’t know what else. Plus woman terrify me. I’ve been through so much that I see them as evil. Last night I prayed and my longings that make me me grew peaceful and mature. But sometimes I ask god to strip me of everything and just make me satisfied and happy with the bare minimum. He isn’t doing that. My grandfater has been diagnosed with Alzheimers. Hes my last real link, next to my parents, to what i’ve known and its hard on m parents. Where trying to find a nursing home for him and, since my car broke down, they have taken the only car and I’m stuck at the house most days, going out at night. That isn’t life. Didn’t god say “For I know the plans I have for you. Plans to prosper and not harm you. Plans to give you a future and a hope”. What I’m going through now isn’t living, it isn’t a life nor gods plans for me. I’ve messed up so many times and screwed things up. I just don’t want to miss the boat. At 27(almost 28) I feel as though I have.

And I just want to tell god I love him but that I’m still human, until I come to his kingdom, and humans need also human things as well as God. But I love god with all my heart. Behind everything I love the lord with all my heart. I just don’t know what is keeping him. I feel like 10,000 Johbs. Guess I’m just venting here.

admin answers:

” have so much in me thats trapped inside. Its basically a social problem, not knowing social cues and how to make friends etc. I don’t know how to start ”

I would suggest by working on understanding Asperger’s in general, and your individual expression of it in the particular. We vary a lot.
When you are clear on your own strengths and difficulties, you will be better able to see how to exploit and train up the first, and work around and support the second.
Better understanding and communication with others, and deeper relationships, tends to follow from that.
I found Tony Attwood’s “The complete guide to Asperger’s syndrome” incredibly useful, but that is well over 300 pages of solid information.

I can’t comment on the God aspect as I am an atheist.
Middle-aged adult with Asperger’s
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Your Questions About Spirituality And Health

Susan asks…

How can you get good mental health?

i have horrible mental health but good spirituality, and looks i think but it seems like i should be put in like a white van taken to one of the white cushiony puff cloud places!!

What did you do to get good mental health?! :D

admin answers:

By horrible mental health, do you mean that you are very self critical of yourself inside your head? Stop it. Easy as that. Each time you catch yourself saying negative statements about yourself, say STOP. You can change your thoughts easily. Say some positive lines of a poem or song, say something good about yourself. Go for a walk, get physically busy for 10 minutes. And think, would you say such horrible negative things to others? No, then don`t say them to yourself. Think positive, and it will change your day. Enjoy cooking good healthy food. Go for walks. Read uplifting books. Help other people. No more negatives, life`s too short.

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Your Questions About Spirituality Test

Sharon asks…

How does disability affect your spirituality?

Last time I got many positive responses as to wether God loves disabled people…my question now is how does disability affect your spirituality?

In my case I am still confused about God’s love speaking strictly in my perspective(so please don’t judge me)and I feel I am not very spiritual coz though i don’t doubt God exists ,forgive my foolishness… but I feel disability is a punishment in a way and to me it looks a really big one.Disability is disability and though it’s physical severity makes a relative difference from individual to individual.Psychologically i think the weight is still the same

I agree that disability can teach the individual affected as well as all those around him a few lessons in life because it can be a test of character and spirit but when I think about it it does not ipso facto always bring one closer to God or being good,in fact it can drive someone in the opposite direction through doubt and self loathing

What are your thoughts about this

admin answers:

Like others here, I am spiritual, but not religious. I do not see disability as a punishment or a burden, it is just a difference I have to deal with. I do believe that I was created just as perfectly as those whose bodies look and work more typically.
My differences are just another way of being. This might be why I am not more conventionally religious, because I do not believe I can or need to be healed. I see people with disabilities as whole beings just the way they are, without need of cure or miracle. I’ll keep my broken brain and twisted body, give me a ramp and an accessible van!

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Your Questions About Spirituality Test

Sandra asks…

Science -vs- Spirituality?

Science is a way of testing something, getting a result & through means of priviously-rendered knowledge, predicting what should happen when the subject is tested a 2nd time. Spirituality is somewhat different, however… You cannot just “predict” that just because your prayers were answered the 1st time then the next time you ask God/idol/Jesus/sky/FSM then you will get the same results. I’m a believer every other week, and an Atheists spuratically…. Should I feel bad for being obsessed with science and not really getting spirituality/religion? O.o what do you think personally?

admin answers:

Science and religion go hand in hand even tho many would disagree. It was that way in the very beginning. Some can predict and some just have hope their prayers will be answered. Don’t worry in time the truth will come to you. Keep on researching. Gather evidence.

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Your Questions About Spirituality

Mandy asks…

How do you make your spirituality a part of each day as a pagan?

How do you make your spirituality a part of each day?

admin answers:

Easy – my path is about reducing my impact on the physical, social and natural environments.

So my volunteering and other acts focus on this. Worked out I do volunteer 7 days a fortnight in three different organisations.

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Your Questions About Spirituality In Nursing

Mark asks…

Where to go from here?

I’m leaving the Christian faith. All my family is Christian, and all my friends are too. Basically I’ve built my life around this belief system, and I don’t know how to completely escape it. I’m not necessarily leaving some of the Christian principles- love your neighbor, serving others, etc. I’m in nursing school and aspire to help people for the rest of my life. I truly do love my family and friends, and I adhere to a lot of the teachings of Christ, but not his divinity. I don’t believe the bible is the inspired word of God, and I don’t believe people are going to hell because they don’t believe in Jesus. I’m taking a world religions course and I just don’t see how this could ever be the truth. There is a beautiful, diverse world, and Christianity is far to exclusive for me. I just don’t know how to even start this process- everyone thinks I’m a Christian. How do I tell the world I’m not?

Thanks for your insight :)

Also, if you’re wondering what I am now if not Christian… I’m much more into spirituality, and I think what I learned from Buddhism makes a lot of sense. I’m not sure if I believe in God, and I don’t think humans really have access to ever knowing what’s beyond this life. All we can truly know is the present- and that’s where I want to be.

Peace & Love <3

admin answers:

You may want to look into Unitarian Universalism.

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